Question about Swingers vs Nons

**rick and becky** · 05-07-2009, 09:41 AM

We can't wait to meet everyone and anyone down at Hedo III!!!!

We have been in the swinger lifestyle for about four years and have many amazing fantasies fulfilled but still many more are left to be fulfilled! So we were wondering what to expect at Hedo III when it came to meeting couples that were into swinging (soft or full), approaching couples and asking if they were swingers (as we know not everyone who goes is into the lifestyle), how to approach people in a manner than does not offend, what kind of playing goes on at HedoIII, do the clubs at night offer a good atmosphere for swingers to meet other swingers in hopes to play with them?

any info people can shed on this would be tremendous!

**weliveinvegas** · 05-07-2009, 10:20 AM

Have to agree with offshore, you should be able to get a feel for folks after spending some time with them naked all day at the nude pool. It can be difficult since Hedo banned the "I am a swinger" wrist band a few years back...I am j/k...I have not seen a single post yet in all our years going to Hedo that a nonlifestyler said that they were totally offended by being asked to play. Ask, if they are not interested, they will tell you.

Ivy and Rick
"Once you go, you will know"

**CopNkitten** · 05-07-2009, 03:51 PM

Just use the secret "swinger signal", we all look for it.

**Moorerotic** · 05-07-2009, 05:19 PM

If you've been in the lifestyle for 4 years, you may find Hedo to be a bit on the tame side.

If you haven't learn "how to offer" without offending, or learned to not care if you offend someone, after 4 years "in the wild" there isn't much this forum can do for you.

Four years in the lifestyle makes you one of the experts relative to the average Hedo goer.