I have been reading the forum off and on for a few weeks now and thought I'd finally pop in and say hello.
We have never been to a nude resort and are not currently swingers, however we are definitely curious to give it a try. The past year, and more recently, the past couple of months, we have been talking seriously about getting into the lifestyle, or at least giving it a try.
Without getting into details, we are both interested in seeing each other with different people, as well as being with different people ourselves. Always together of course, but interested, just the same. Only thing is, we have not yet acted on this so it's all just speculation currently.
We are considering trying hedo in Jan for our anniversary when we renew our vows. This would be our second honeymoon and sort of an entrance into our new "life" together I suppose.
Between now and then we are planning little "events" to test the waters so to speak before going to hedo at that time.
We are not here looking for partners or anything, just sort of reading to see what others think of hedo or the lifestyle (for those who are into it) and what we can expect when we give it a try ourselves.
So far, the info in this forum has been VERY good. Especially the topic on boundaries and safe words. That has been very reassuring as to how to handle situations and has made for some pretty interesting conversations for us.
I am currently working overseas so this has mostly been a lot of discussion and some planning for my first trip back home (not the trip to hedo) and how we will test the waters so to speak.
Whether or not we actually get into the lifestyle ( I realize this site isn't necessarily about the lifestyle) has yet to be determined, but thanks to the things I have read here from all of you, our communication levels have definitely changed and improved.
Thanks for all of the great info and I hope to meet some of you one day at hedo.
BTW, we are staying somewhat anonymous until we have gotten a bit further in our discussions with each other. I also do not reply to private messages currently because I'd rather keep everything in the open. Down the road, that may change. Hope that doesn't offend anyone.
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